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Should Have Been You

by Joseph Stanfill

Fathers and Sons, Mothers and Daughters

Sent off to war, they go with courage, honor

Most will come back with invisible pain

Some like you, will always stay

Shouldn’t have been you, left so far away

Should have been you, standing here today

Why on earth did I get God’s grace?

Should have been me

I wish I could take your place

I’ve tried to live my life to honor you

Not taking things for granted like I used to

But in the night the darkness comes

I dream about the day that we were overrun

Right by my side, you fought valiantly

A flash and a blast, I couldn’t see

I said your name, and a voice told me

“He saved your life, he didn’t make it you see.”

Now I’m left with memories and regrets

You were so young, hadn’t even had kids yet

Your young bride, at the funeral I held her hand

She misses you so much, and so will your little man

And I know, I could never take your place

I promise I’ll do my best, man, he even has your face

Should have been you that came home to stay

Should have been me, I couldn’t take your place

But now I see, I’m here to hold God’s grace

Who We Are

Military Experience and the Arts, Inc. is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization whose primary mission is to work with veterans and their families to publish short stories, essays, poems, and artwork in our biannual publication, As You Were: The Military Review, periodic editions of Blue Nostalgia: The Journal of Post-Traumatic Growth and others. To the best of our ability, we pair each author or poet that submits work to us with a mentor to work one-on-one to polish their work or learn new skills and techniques.

Our staff is based all over the country and includes college professors, professional authors, veterans’ advocates, and clinicians. As such, most of our services are provided through email and online writing workshops.

All editing, consultations, and workshops are free of charge. Veterans and their families pay nothing for our services, and they never will.

Under our Publications tab, there are more than two dozen volumes of creative work crafted by veterans and their family members as well as a virtual art gallery. Our blog posts feature short pieces that cover a wide range of opinion editorials, literary reviews, and profiles on veteran artists and writers.

Please consider spending some time navigating our site and reading and seeing the fine work of veterans and their families from around the globe.

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